This is my paternal grandmother, Eily. My memories of her are minimal, as she died when I was very small, but I had a sense of her being gentle and loving. For a long time, we knew little about Eileen's life, but recently I have learned a lot more, and have a new found strength of admiration for this woman. Despite growing up in a loving, hardworking and supportive family, Eily found herself in a very difficult marriage, with 9 children to support. Dealing with domestic violence and the needs of a growing family, Eileen eventually made the decision to move to Melbourne with her children, and forge a new career for herself. At 49 years, she began training as a psychiatric nurse, and spent her free time travelling around Melbourne visiting each of her children who resided in care. It was along haul, but eventually she purchased a block of land in Blackburn, and built a new family home for them all. There is so much to admire about Eileen; her devotion to her family, her sacrifice, perseverance, courage and determination. Her story reminds me that it's never too late to steer your life in the direction you want. I'm inspired by her vision for a new life, and by the love and support she received from her brothers and their families. Sometimes family love can provide the force to overcome life's difficulties, and deliver a happy ending. It's a shame that Eily didn't live long enough to meet all her grandchildren, but I reckon her last years were happy, peaceful and rewarding. Most definitely, her legacy lives on.
